Two Priests and one Nun in My Family

When I was a studying in Middle School, my parents had a dream to see me as a Catholic Priests. When I was in Class III, the Pilar Fathers and Daughters of St.Anna working in Baratang Parish Church started preparing me to join for priesthood. When I passed class VIII, my parents talked to the Parish Priest and I was to be sent to an Apostolic School in Ranchi. My parents and all members of my family bade me farewell. I came Port Blair but things so happened that I didnot get the tickets for travel to Calcutta. I had no option but to go back home. After a few days, I got myself admitted to Nirmala School. The idea of sending me to Nirmala School by my parents was that I should join a minor seminary after Matriculation. By the time, I passed matriculation, the priest who were promoting me for priesthood were transferred and other priests were not very enthusiatic to send me to a Minor Seminary. So, I joined Govt. Boys School for Senior Secondary, Port Blair. In the due course, I did my Graduation and Post Graduation and the dream or goal of mine to become a Priest lost. I had topped in Arts Group in Senior Seconary Examination and also topped in B.A. Perhaps keeping in view these achievements my parents also never insisted me to go for Priesthood. I did start my career as a Lower Grade Clerk and subsequently got a job in Indian Oil Corporation too which was highly paid job. Once, when I was passing through the road adjacent to Cathedral Church, Prem Nagar, one priest namely Fr. Basilio Rodrigues met me and told me that they have booked a seat at Pilar Seminary, Nagpur and I have to join there. It was quite surprising for me to listen this after about six years. I told the priest that I have a job now and I am not willing. He insisted and I only assured him to reconsider my plan. Thereafter, I was selected by UPSC for the post of Assistant and decided not to join for Priesthood and finally dropped the idea to become priest.
But my parents wanted that someone from their six sons must become a Priest. It was thus, Zacharias the sixth brother was asked to study for priesthood. After preliminary preparations at Port Blair, he joined a Minor Seminary at Calcutta. Unfortunately, an accident took place and he lost his one eye. It was a sad moments for all of us but left everything to God. His Bishop allowed him to study further for Priesthood inspite of the fact that Zacharias had lost his one eye forever. It was a joyous moment for all of us when on 13th May, 2001, he was ordained to Priesthood by Most Rev. Alex Dias, Bishop of Port Blair.

                               First Mass by Fr.Zacharias Barla at our Village Kanchan Garh on 14.5.2001


While, Fr.Zacharias was still studying for Priesthood, my cousin Tej Prakash Bara (last son of my second uncle Late Paulus Bara) had also joined for Priesthood and was studying at Lucknow and Allahabad. He was too ordained as a Priest on 3rd April, 2005.

Fr. Tej being ordained to Priesthood by Most Rev. Albert D'Souza, Bishop of Lucknow(Now Archbishop of Agra)

(Sr. Neel Prabha Barla, my niece, took her first profession in the Sisters of Charity of St. Anne on 13.5.2012)

I feel happy that we have two priests and one Nun  in our family.

Vist to Andamans-2011

Visiting Port Blair is always a pleasant experience. Often family circumstances do not allow to stay there for longer time, we always try to make a short visit to Port Blair and Baratang. We had a short visit during May 2009 and again from 24th September to 7th October, this year. Normally, we visit our home town in May-June but during last 26 years I had never seen the greenary of paddy field in my village. During the month of September, all the field use to look green. It is said every thing changes after certain period of time. As I entered village, I saw greenary on my field but few of my neighbours had abondoned their field without paddy crops. On enquiry, my family members told me some domestic reasons and said that they are unable to do the paddy cultivation.

There was continuous rain through out the year so everywhere there were muds and leech. Fearing of leeach my wife and younger daughtor didnot muster courage to take round of the field. My old father took me to the hilly area to show me his new banana plantations. As soon as my young nephew will return from School, he will insist me for fishing in the small rivers and all small children will follow us.

It was wonderful time with my Sister's grand daughtor named Angel. She is just two years old but always come and take me field. A small girl but unfearful of leech.

We had a two days stay at Port Blair with my maternal cousin at Shadipur Postal Staff Quarters. On 24th September, we the old students of Government Boys Senior Secondry School, Port Blair at Youth Hostel. It was wonderful to meet friends from other schools after 30 years long gap. Before returning Delhi, we devoted the two days meeting friends and relatives but the time fell short. After many years I could see the festivity of Dushara Pooja. The only thing which hurt me was traffic jams and Auto Rikhsaw demanding uncontrolled fares from passenger. On 6th October, we got a chance to see the beautiful Vellankani Shrine at Panighat where my younger brother Fr. Zacharias Barla is Rector.

This was short visit but ended with a lot of activities. Mr.Awadh Bihari, Prakash Kumar Choudhary, U.N.Choudhary, Rajeshwar Velu, Stiphen and A.C.Cherian all came to help me wherever I wanted to go.

Memories of Nirmala School, Port Blair.

In the year 1976, after my effort to join a Apostolic School for becoming a Priest failed, I took admission in Nirmala School. Sr. B.A. Fatima was the Principal and Late Fr.Peter Gomes, SFX was Manager of the School. After sometime, Fr. John Camillo, SFX also joined as Assistant Manager and at the same time was teaching us English. I was residing in Nirmala Boys Hostel which was a common hostel for Carmel School. At Hostel, life will begin at 5.00 a.m. by rising from bed and attending daily morning mass at 5.30. Again at evening, we have to queue up in line to Church for evening prayers and blessing by a Priest. English and Science was very difficult subject for me because I came from a rural school of Baratang Islands. Any how, I and a few passed 10th Std in 1978. It being a missionary school had a some difference from a Government School. Main thrust was on discipline. I remeber a few teachers Mr.Emmanuel( Physical Education Teacher), Mrs. Kaur (Hindi Teacher), Mrs.Sharma ( Civics,), Mr. B.B.Singh(Science), Late Mr. Mangra Kujur(History), Mr.Agapit Kujur(Maths), Mrs. Rao(English), Sr. Preeti(Geography).

Ranjit Soreng, me and Ajit Michael(Carmel) Xth Batch of 1970 from Nirmala Hostel.

                              Late Fr. Peter Gomes(2nd from left) Sr. Neel Prabha(Right), HM Primary Section.

Some Memorable Funny Moments of Life

Note Approved:
In offices, often we may find officers who will given verbal orders but if they are asked to approve it in writing they will either be annoyed or do something. One of my colleage who was working under a technical officer asked him to do something and accordingly a note was submitted to him for his approval. He called my colleage and first said why he needed his approval. When the reason was explained he hesitated to sign the note. When my colleage insisted, he said " तुम क्या सोचता है मैं साइन करने से डरता हू, उसने ज़ोर से कहा "जय काली मा" and approved the note.

How to Work in Secretariat:
When we were undergoining probationary training in 1987, one faculty member of ISTM use to say this line-आते नमस्ते जाते नमस्ते, काम कभी मना मत करना, काम कभी करना मत, आते नमस्ते जाते नमस्ते, अफसर को हमेशा खुश रखना, कोई काम कहे तो कहना" हून्ही लो जी"

2. In olden days Britishers use to appoint Jathedar or Risaldar for small area and they use to look after the administrative work but most of them were illiterate. So they use to keep some Babus knowing English. My Sardar friend used to tell me that these Jathedar use to approve the proposal with remarks" Padan Likhan Babu Jimedar, sign kita Sardar Nihal Singh, Jathedar."
Now a days again due to downsizing there are scarcity of Babus or even there are some they are not well qualified so one Babu wrote"
" PUC(Paper under Consideration) is letter from ......,
" I have nothing to Utter..
"Officer Knows it better..
Submitted for consideration and Orders.

बंगाली और बिहारी
एक बंगाली और बिहारी ट्रेन में यात्रा कर रहे थे. एक स्टेशन पर बिहारी ने बंगाली से पूछा " दादा ए जगह कर का नाम बा". बंगाली बड़े बेरूख़ी से बोला" हम्मी जानी ना". दूस्सरे स्टेशन फिर बिहारी ने स्टेशन का नाम पूछा तो दादा ने फिर बोला "हम्मी जानी ना". तीसरे स्टेशन पर बिहारी ने फिर वही सवाल पूछा तो फिर जबाब मिला "हम्मी जानी ना". बिहारी को बड़ा गुस्सा आया और बोला " दादा एक गो स्टेशन कर नामे "जानी ना" हो सकत है, दूगो स्टेशन कर नाम "जानी ना" हो सकत है, हमको बेवकूफ़ समझा है" और एक थप्पड़ जड़ दिया. " बंगाली मार खाते ही बोला " अम्मा गो". बिहारी बोला" बंगाली मार ख़ाके ही सही बात बोलता है. पहले कही नही बोला स्टेशन का नाम "अम्मा गो" है.
Traffic Lights:
My friends from Andamans may recall that once we had five Councillors there in the Pradesh Council. When I came Delhi one of the Driver posted with Andaman House told me one amazing thing. One of the Councillor(I will not name) had come to Delhi first time and he was surprised to see the traffic signals at many points. He just asked the Driver who turns these traffic lights "on" and "Off". It looked funny to me but I recalled, those days traffic signals were not in Andamans.
Chutkule:
एक मिस्टर श्याम सिंग थे. वे जब भी घर से बाहर जाते थे तो ग्राउंड में खेल रहे बचो
से सवाल पूछते थे की " मौलाना आज़ाद कौन थे? राजेन्ड्रा प्रसाद कौन थे? सरदार पटेल कौन थे? वग़ैरा वग़ैरा . बचें जब जबाब नही दे पाते तो कहते थे " घर में बैठ कर पढ़ोगे तब तो पता चलेगा. एक दिन बचों ने स्याम अंकल को घेर लिया और पूछा " अंकल आपको पता है राम सिंग कौन है? श्याम सिंग जी बोले "पता नही है. बचों ने कहा " अंकल घर पर रहोगे तब तो पता चलेगा.
2.Keep a Watch: On a return a file one officer wrote " Keep a watch on this case" and marked down to his junior. After 15 days the senior inquired about the file. The Junior very innocently replied" Sir, maine file ko Almira me rakha hai aur uspar apni Ghari(Watch) rakh di hai.
Rail Bandhna:

This is somewhat 40 years old incident. Two of our relatives had just arrived in
Baratang and got a job of Mazdoor in Forest Department. The work of fencing is commonly known there as "Railing" or "Rail Bandhna'. On the first day itself these guys were alloted the work of fencing. As usual their Supervisor told them " बेंत की रस्सी लो, नर्सरी में जाओ और रेल बांधो". These two guys went to the Nursery but did not find any railway line/track. They just thought and discussed, " यहाँ कोई रेल लाइन नही है और रेल आ भी गई तो इतेने बरे रेल को इतनी पतली रस्सी से बंधेंगे कैसे." They just waited and wasted 8 hours for the rail to come.